Controlling behavior ruins a relationship. A person who feels the need to control a relationship often finds themselves alone in the end. At first, the desire to control can be manipulated to look as though you are doing something because you love someone, or want what is best for them. After the initial honeymoon phase ends, and the controlling behavior takes over and become more predominant in the relationship, the person being controlled gets sick of it.
Controlling behavior and the need to control another, comes from the controllers insecurity. A man may be very insecure, and not treat the woman he loves very well. Instead of working on his insecurities and treating her better, he decides to try and control her. Because he is jealous and insecure, he wants to control how she dresses, who she hangs out with, and if she wears make up. He may also try and keep her away from her friends and family, because it is easier to control someone when they are isolated. Women do this too. They may try and keep the man they love from his friends and family, and even his children. This is not about love, but about selfish, insecure control. It is dysfunctional, and based on weakness, not strength. Sure, if you do not want the one you love to hang around an ex, that makes sense, but trying to keep them from ever member of the opposite sex is childish, immature, and unreasonable.
People who practice controlling behavior are often Drama Queens or Kings as well. If you do something innocent like meet your girlfriends or family members for lunch and the entire time you are afraid of what he will say or do if he finds out, you are focusing on the wrong thing. Why the hell shouldn’t you be able to enjoy lunch with your friends instead of worrying about how he will react? What you do not realize is that by trying to keep the peace and adapt to his controlling nature you are making him or her worse, and the relationship has no future.
Wouldn’t you like to see if controlling behavior is ruining your relationship? Would you like to know if your significant other is a control freak who will only get worse? Would you like to know the steps you can take in your relationship NOW to break this cycle of controlling behavior and get your relationship back in balance? Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise will help you get control of your life and your relationship, give you the courage and strength you need to stay in the power seat, and change the dynamics of your relationship.