Are You in a Dysfunctional Twin Flame Relationship?

Many people believe they must endure a dysfunctional relationship because someone is their soul mate or twin flame. Of course there will be obstacles that must be overcome, as with any twin flame relationship. Some of them could be quite challenging. But if you find that you constantly compromise your own personal happiness by staying in a soul mate or twin flame relationship that leaves you feeling m miserable, unloved and unappreciated, it might be time to recognize the relationship has become dysfunctional.


Take a good, honest look at your soul mate or twin flame relationship. Are you happy in this relationship? Were you happy in the beginning but can’t seem to find that happiness anymore? Does you soul mate or twin flame treat you unfairly, unkindly or unjustly? Do you tolerate behaviors from your twin flame that you swore you never would? Well unfortunately your relationship has become dysfunctional.


dysfunctional twinflame relationship

Are You in a Dysfunctional Twinflame Relationship?

Fighting to keep your twin flame relationship going is like beating your head against the wall. And you will always lose. As a matter of fact you might as well just drop a bowling ball on your head and deal with the pain all at once. Relationships take commitment, compromise and communication and if you are the only one contributing the three “Cs” the relationship is doomed because there is one person contributing to the relationship.


The dysfunctional twin flame relationship will not fix itself.  No amount of time, love, having kids or buying a new home will fix a dysfunctional relationship. It will not get back to where it was in the beginning no matter how much you pray or how many candles you light. Sure, we believe in divine intervention but most of the time, there has to be an intervention, and you will more than likely have to do it.


Not all dysfunctional twin flame relationships need to stay broken. The good news is that some of them can be fixed. The first step is to recognize there is a problem. How can you tell? If your relationship has gotten way out of control, with no boundaries, no mutual respect for each other or for the relationship itself, it is a dysfunctional relationship. If he refuses to listen to you, does not contribute to your relationship and grunts at you instead of talking with you, it is a dysfunctional relationship. If your relationship is making you miserable, it is time to accept that it is dysfunctional.


On the other hand, not all dysfunctional relationships can be saved, no matter  how much you love or desire someone. It will take work. And not just yours. Work that you are both committed to work on together. He has to be willing to step up to the plate as well and contribute to fixing things. If you catch the dysfunctional early enough to bring it back into balance. If too much damage has been done in during ‘hoping things will change’ time, chances are you will not be able to bring this back from the brink of failure.


So what are some of the changes you can make to repair you dysfunctional twin flame relationship?

  • Stop fighting ~ You know how to push each other’s buttons. Replace fighting with peaceful discussion or conversation. If you are calm but he will wants to fight, remove yourself from the situation until he calms down and is able to speak like a normal person. Get counseling if he is willing, as this will help create better communication skills.
  • Stop letting resentments build ~ Forgive the past so you can create a better future together.
  • Stop waiting for change to happen ~ Take control and begin to create change in the your relationship. Take control of what YOU can. Your relationships is really not dependent upon what you twin flame says, does, or thinks.
  • Take the high road ~ Stop stooping to behaviors that lower your dignity just to save the relationship. If you do or say anything that is beneath you, it compromises your integrity and makes you feel used.
  • Let go, if you know it will never change ~ Find the right relationship that you want and deserve. If a relationship is so dysfunctional, never been healthy or brought you joy, it might be time to pack it in. Not all relationships are salvageable. Don’t wait for it to get worse.

You can’t stay in a relationship that is joyless just to wait and see if it will magically change down the road. The road itself is what is predicting your path. If the road is getting rockier you need to do something to get your on your right path. Lady Sarah and Sophia Elise are Twin flame ~ Soul mate experts and able to quickly delve into the challenges you might be facing in your dysfunctional relationship. They will give you insight, guidance and honest answers to get your relationship on course or give you the courage you need to walk away from it.  The Universe and the Divine do not intend for us to be miserable, fearful and unloved in our romantic relationships. Sarah and Sophia will guide you back to that place.


  1. glad he is ‘gone’ but anytime he comes back it just ruins everything. He fucked up and there is no fixing something so fundamental and basic. Cheating is not ok not for me or anyone else…..not emotionally and not sexually.

  2. Im in a twinflame relationship! There has been alot of hurt, alot from my side, she knows more than me! I love her, cant stand the feeling of her leaving! My soul hurts when shes gone, spirituality lowers! What can we do

  3. YES!! no dysfunctional relationship can fix itself no matter how ‘destined’ it is!

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