Forgiving your soulmate or twin flame isn’t always easy. Contrary to popular belief, soulmates and twin flames can do some pretty hurtful things to one another. It would be wonderful to think soulmates and twin flames are perfect couples who never fight and are destined to be together but that unfortunately is just a myth.
Soulmate and twin flame relationships can be very challenging on many levels. Since soulmates and twin flames have lessons and growing to do, with that often comes pain. Soulmates and twin flames often test the connection they share, to see how much they can get away with. When you are always the one forgiving your soulmate or twin flame and yet they still are the one always screwing up, it may be time to take a harder stance.
Of course you don’t want to let your soulmate or twin flame go. But do you want to keep them around while they keep destroying what you are trying so hard to build?
Sometimes soulmates and twin flames meet at what seems to be the wrong time. For whatever reason, they may have to separate in order to come back stronger. Resisting that separation can prolong the inevitable and do a lot of damage to the relationship. Just because you let a soulmate or twin flame go does not mean you have to let them go forever. Taking a break to calm things down or to change bad behavior can have very positive results in the end.
You do not have to be your soulmate or twin flame’s teacher, learn their lessons for them, and excuse and be forgiving of every mistake they make along the way. It is not your job to learn their lessons, it is theirs. Leave those to them.
When your soulmate or twin flame is asking for forgiveness and they really mean it, their actions going forward will support it. They won’t just tell you they are sorry, they will show you they are sorry. That will make you feel as though forgiving them was the right thing to do. It is when you have to keep forgiving them over and over again because they say they are sorry, but they really aren’t. It is hurtful to think that they won’t change for you, that they don’t love you enough to change. You don’t want to think that they hurt you on purpose, but what else can you think?
You told them over and over again how upset you get when they do or say something, and you showed them your pain. They said they were sorry, and you wound up forgiving them. But then they hurt you even worse by doing it again. Now you feel stupid for forgiving them. Maybe it is time to change tactics. Perhaps you should not forgive your soulmate or twin flame so easily. Maybe next time might be the time to not give them your forgiveness when they screw up again. It might be in your best interest to make them earn it this time, instead of giving in so easily. Maybe it is time your actions back up your words.