Do you feel your soul mate has lost the soul mate connection to you? Was your bond so strong at one point, but now seems as though your soul mate has cut the cord? Do they act cold, nasty and/or indifferent towards you? Does it seem as though the soul mate connection between the two of you has been lost? And, if so, will the connection be lost for good?
First of all, a soul connection you have with someone is not something you can turn on and off, on a whim, like a light switch. What the universe has created, we mere mortals have no power to vanquish with the snap of our fingers, like Endora does on “Bewitched”. The strength of the soul mate connection can weaken, but it never really goes away because a soul mat connection is eternal.
There could be many other reasons why it may seem to you that your soul mate was able to disconnect from you, when in reality, they really didn’t. They may be doing everything in their power to prove to themselves, to you, and the entire world that they have lost the connection you once shared. But they really didn’t. And in the end, their acting out may prove to themselves, you and the entire world that they truly are connected to you.
So what would make someone behave in such a way so you believe they have lost the soul mate connection you both knew was real? Most people hope to find someone in this world that they feel connected to. But then when they actually have it right in front of them, it scares them half to death. If they go with the tidal wave of emotions they feel, it is one hell of a great ride. However, if they try to swim against the tide, they flounder, and feel as though they are drowning.
The emotions that come with a soul mate connection has made more people freak out than you can fathom. Since they can’t handle it, they do everything in their power to try and prove it doesn’t exist, never existed or has ceased to exist. It’s a devastating blow and causes insurmountable pain. You can try everything to prove them wrong at this point, but it won’t work. They are not open to what you have to say, and to what they know they feel. This is something they have to work out on their own.
If you have betrayed your soul mate over and over again, the soul mate connection between you is still there, but it is damaged. The problem for you will be that it has been weakened to the point that they are ready to let you go. Soul mates do have a threshold for nonsense, and even they can decide the soul mate connection they have with you is something they are willing to release. It will still exist, but if you have hurt them enough, especially over and over again, they can mute your connection to a certain degree. It’s like turning down the radio. It is still on, but more in the background, not on full-blast like it was before.
Soul mates never really lose the soul mate connection, they just learn another way to live with it.
Also check out our article: Have Your Soulmates Feelings for You Changed?