Are you searching for your soul mate? Are you wondering when your soul mate is going to finally show up? You are not alone. We get tons of emails from people telling us they are searching for their soul mate and want us to help find them. We can’t do a soul mate reading to find their soul mate. We can’t tell anyone exactly when they will meet their soul mate, so please, don’t ask.
When your soul mate enters your life is not predetermined, as it is based on divine timing. The course both of your lives are taking and the choices you both make can change the timing of your meeting. It is also not about just one person being ready, the timing has to be right for both of you. You are better off doing a scavenger hunt, because you are wasting your time.
You are not required to search for your soul mate. The universe is not going to waste it’s time creating soul mate couples and never give them the chance to meet. Unless you hide in your house and never go out in public the universe will bring you and your soul mate together when the time is right. You may believe the time is right now, and are bored with the losers you keep meeting. Unfortunately we don’t get to decide when our soul mates show up.
The funny thing is, people tell us they weren’t even looking for their soul mate and found them instead of actively searching for them. And that is truly the reality of the situation. They show up when you aren’t looking. The point is, whether you are searching for a soul mate or don’t even know what one is, if the universe has one for you, they will cross your path. This is the main reason why you don’t have to overdo it.
It’s ok to put yourself out there, but if it feels like a chore, then stop doing so much to make it happen. Since it is not up to you, leave it to the universe. If you want the divine spark of a soul mate, then you have to accept divine timing as well. If you can’t, then your control issues or impatience may be something you need to work on and you may not be as ready as you think.
We cannot tell you how many times we have spoken to bitter, nasty, yelling people who are so angry with the universe because they have been searching for their soul mate and haven’t found them. They believed they were ready, deserving, and extremely pissed off that they didn’t get what they want, when they wanted it. Remember Varuka Salt in Willie Wonka and the Chocolate Factory? They were just like her and yet expected the universe to give in to their negativity, nastiness, entitlement and bulling and bring them one. Sorry, but we don’t think that is going to work.
Sure, you can be frustrated and angry, but we are talking about those that go to the extreme. If you keep actively searching for a soul mate and are not finding one, it could easily go to that extreme. It is one thing to date in hopes of finding a soul mate and being open to the possibility. It is another to not even be able to enjoy your life at all and have that search be all consuming.
You want your soul mate to enter your life, not give you one. So have a life and enjoy it, and stop searching and trying so hard. All you really have to do is allow it to happen, and it will.