Is your soulmate or twin flame relationship exclusive? You would be surprised how many soulmate or twin flame relationships are not exclusive right away! Why is this?
First of all, many soulmates and twin flames meet when they are in relationships with other people. The universe gave them ample time to get out of these relationships but it was taking too long. So the soulmates or twin flames meet for the first time when one (or both) are already in exclusive relationships with other people.
The meeting of the soulmates or twin flame is an awakening. It is supposed to show them what they could have, instead of living with what they settled for before they met their soulmate or twin flame. It allows them to experience deeper level to their emotions. The reunion shows them what it is really like to be connected to another soul.
The problem is that many soulmates or twin flames have to wait a long time for one (or both) to end their other exclusive relationships. The soulmate or twin flame meeting was not one they were looking for or expected. This has caught them completely off guard. They were not prepared for this to happen, and now they have two things going on simultaneously.
They are dealing with this connection to their soulmate or twin flame, and also disconnecting from their other exclusive relationship. Often the newness and happiness brought about by their awakening makes them focus more on the soulmate or twin flame relationship first. Then, slowly, they get around to the reality that if they are going to be together, their exclusive relationship has to end.
There are always excuses, such as money, children, illness, and even how friends and family will react. The soulmates or twin flames feel deeply for one another, but they have a real obstacle to face going forward. Ending an exclusive relationship is hard, and in most cases a very negative experience. But it is up to the two soulmates or twin flames to do the right thing.
Some people are willing to continue a relationship with their soulmate or twin flame while they are still in their other relationship. Other people are only comfortable keeping it on a friendship level. There are others who can’t even speak, text or email their soulmate or twin flame until they end their other relationship because it is too hard, and they are against cheating. However you handle it is up to the two of you. It is your journey, and of course there will be lessons to learn along the way. Just remember you two have a special bond that cannot be broken. Until they end their other relationship, you cannot really begin yours.