Your soulmate or twin flame more than likely has an ex from a past relationship. Depending on the nature of their relationship with their ex, it can cause problems in your current relationship. Since soulmates and twin flames often meet when one or both is already married, their ex may blame you for their divorce. If you are in a situation like that, you may be well aware of the bitterness, resentment, and hatred the ex has towards you.
They may have told their children (if they have any) that you are the cause of their parents splitting up. The ex may tell anyone who will listen how horrible and terrible of a person you are. The ex may try to get their friends and family to hate you as much as they do. Because they believe you ruined their relationship, they want to ruin yours. The may not even love your soulmate or twin flame. They may not have suffered a broken heart when the relationship ended.. It may just be that they do not want to see them happy with you.
If you did have an affair while your soulmate or twin flame was married it may have led them to get a divorce. Since they divorced their ex to be with you, it is understandable why the ex would hate you. To a certain extent. After a divorce, both parties are free to move on and leave the past behind. But what if your soulmate or twin flame’s ex doesn’t want to move on with their life? What if the ex just wants to ruin your life? How can you keep your twin flame or soulmate’s wife from causing problems in your relationship?
Many people have told us they have no problems at all with their soulmate or twin flame. Except when it comes to their ex. That can sometimes be the only area of friction between the couple. When they feel it is their job to decide how they handles their ex the decisions can be disastrous. Now if they was doing a good job creating boundaries, enforcing boundaries, and standing up to their ex, there shouldn’t be a problem should there? Nope.
But what often happens is your soulmate or twin flame lets their ex get away with murder. They don’t want to fight with the ex so they do anything to keep the peace. That isn’t handling an ex. That is obeying their every command. They ex may be happy, but you sure are not. How can that possibly make you, their soulmate or twin flame, feel like you are a priority when their ex’s demands often come first? It can’t. An ex does need to be dealt with, and if the two of you cannot agree with how to best do that, it may be time to ask for outside help.
It would be such a shame for twin flames and soulmates to have conflict in their relationship caused by an ex. Instead of arguing and disagreeing, it might be a smart idea to contact a neutral party. This way someone outside the situation can help find a solution agreeable to both sides and the relationship can run smoothly again. When an issue is not dealt with properly, it just gets worse. Don’t wait for more damage to be done.
Your twin flame or soulmate’s past relationship should not be permitted to cause conflict presently or in the future. You waited so long to finally meet and be together, so protect what you have at all costs.