Twin Flame and Soulmate Saboteurs

 Twin flame and soulmate saboteurs always know what they’re doing. Many times, however, they don’t really understand why. Until they get to the root of their issues, they will continue to sabotage your relationship.


Many people ask us during psychic readings if their soulmate or twin flame is intentionally sabotaging their relationship. In addition, they want to know if they’re doing it deliberately or have no clue.

First of all, these saboteurs know they’re causing a problem they don’t have to. So to that effect, they know they’re sabotaging the relationship. But why they “think” they’re doing it, is actually not correct.

Spiritual connections are often uncomfortable to those who aren’t expecting something like this to happen to them. In truth, it’s even uncomfortable to those who are dying to meet their soulmate or twin flame. When someone has no idea soulmates or twin flames exist, and no idea at all what it’s like, they can have a negative reaction to the connection. Why, you may wonder?

It’s simple actually.

In most cases, when the two first meet the intensity is intoxicating. They don’t think, they just feel. And it feels GREAT. So they surrender to the connection and everything that comes with it. An exhilarated energy flows between them. The couple stays up late into the night to communicate and develop feelings faster than they normally would.


At some point, because they moved too fast, things must slow down a bit. Being so focused on their new-found love, they neglect work and other aspects of their lives. They are now unsure how to make the adjustment..

Unfortunately, most don’t do it smoothly.

Some misread the situation and think they have to keep the soulmate or twin flame relationship at that pace. If they can’t, they think they may need to let it go. They don’t realize there’s a middle ground. So they hit the brakes suddenly, instead of slightly, to slow the pace of the relationship.

They know what they’re doing. But the thing is, they really don’t understand why.

If they can understand the intense emotion is okay, and it’s okay to slow the pace, they wouldn’t have to feel they must bail out entirely. But they may also feel uncomfortable caring about someone so quickly. How can this be realistic?

Since caring so much so soon isn’t logical, they think therefore it can’t be real.

Twin Flame and Soulmate Saboteurs
Twin Flame and Soulmate Saboteurs

So they end the relationship.

Yes, they know they’re a saboteur when they walk away. But do they know they’re doing it because they’re afraid to have so much faith in the connection? Do they realize they’re afraid of getting hurt worse than they ever have before? Not always. Instead, they make up excuses, or do destructive things, to end the relationship. This gives them a fake justification for causing problems.

They may, for instance, go back to an ex. They know the situation with the ex will never work. Perhaps they find someone new, who they don’t feel an intense connection, giving themselves a false sense of safety. Their next action may be pick fights, randomly, and for no good reason.

They make mountains out of molehills, and say and do things they know will trigger their partner. Why? They don’t want to look deeper into themselves and learn the lessons that come with these spiritual connections.


When we look at ourselves, we don’t always look deeply. Many people are afraid to do that. Why? Because they’re scared they won’t like what they see. If soulmate or twin flame saboteurs only look at the surface level, they’re missing the real reason why they sabotage the relationship.

It’s on the deeper levels where soulmates and twin flames discover lessons they have to learn.

Many people contact us asking what lessons they or their partner must learn. Is it really that hard to see? Nope, it’s more than likely obvious to everyone around you. And it should be to you too. Stop scratching at the surface for answers, because that’s not where they are.

Your soulmate or twin flame journey will reveal all your lessons to you. You don’t need a cheat sheet, and they will make themselves known with time and work on your part.

Again, no cheat sheets, you have to do the work.

For instance, let’s say you have a problem because your person’s ex keeps calling. On the surface, the ex calling is the problem. But go deeper with it. How is your partner handling these calls or texts? And how are you handling the calls from their ex? That’s where the problem really lies.

Now go deeper again. So your soulmate or twin flame hasn’t blocked their ex’s calls. Is that the problem? Or is it something more? Have they cheated before with this ex and not yet regained your trust? Let’s say that’s the case. Just stopping the ex from calling won’t fix the problem. It won’t get your trust back. So the real problem is about the trust between you, not the ex calling. Five hundred exes could call your soulmate or twin flame and it wouldn’t matter to you if you completely trust them.

Because many people stay stuck looking at the surface they may not be aware of exactly why they are saboteurs. They need to go deeper into themselves to grow and evolve. Have you or your partner sabotaged your relationship? Comment below and let and our viewers know how you dealt with it or what you are dealing with presently

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