Can you trust your soulmate or twin flame?
Well, that depends. Has your spiritual partner done anything to cause you to lose your trust in them?
If not, it may be your own trust issues getting in the way of your relationship.
ADDRESSING TRUST ISSUES
Either way, the issue of trust needs to be addressed or this relationship won’t be able to grow. A relationship without trust is a dysfunctional relationship. If you have reason not to trust your soulmate or twin flame the two of you need to work it out together.
Your spiritual partner may constantly break plans or fail to show up for dates, outings and family gatherings. They may promise to spend time with you but then not make the time to be with you. Your soulmate or twin flame may tell you they will never bring up certain subjects or be cruel the next time you fight. Then lo and behold they do it again and you find it hard to believe a single word they say.
Promises mean nothing, and neither does their word. Apologies seem empty because they can’t really be sorry if they keep doing it. If your soulmate or twin flame lies repeatedly, you can’t believe a word they say. If they cheat on you, the trust went out the window.
What can you do at this point?
CAN YOU TRUST YOUR SOULMATE OR TWIN FLAME AGAIN?
Yes you can. We see it happen all the time. It doesn’t happen by magic, and it doesn’t happen overnight, but it does happen. Both parties must commit to working on this problem.
The couple must to agree to work on it long term and have an understanding of how fragile the relationship is right now. You both also must be realistic and realize it’s going to take time to build trust. Only one of you can’t do it alone, it takes both of you.
Now is the time to get together and talk about what broke the trust. Don’t rehash and argue, just point out the areas that led to the destruction of the trust. Then take some time to listen to the person who felt violated.
Don’t make promises right now. Promises have been made before and its difficult to believe any promises made at this point, especially from someone who has broken them over and over again.
After you talk, your spiritual counterpart needs to understand the seriousness of these issues. If they do not address them and make changes, this relationship will go from dysfunctional to toxic, if it hasn’t already. Then is stands a good chance of ending.
You need to write a contract together.
Write down, one by one, what behaviors need to change. Both parties have to agree and have their say of what they need. This needs to be about trust, leave all other issues out for now. The focus needs to remain on rebuilding the trust.
After you complete the list, each of you should take a copy, and read over it when you have a moment alone. Then each of you should initial each item on the list to show you understand and agree.
The time for questions or clarity would be now, not later. Each soulmate or twin flame gets a copy of the list and agree going forward this is a new start, and the past is gone. This can help the two of you start fresh and begin to trust your soulmate or twin flame.
Originally posted on 04/03/2016 @ 4:04 am