Many people in twin flame or soulmate relationships believe love is all they need. They believe the connection they share with the one they love, will ensure their relationship will prevail. For some reason, people seem to believe that love is all you need. The belief is that love that is meant to be will be, and that love conquers all. Those statements, although very romantic, are not realistic. Life happens, and even the best of couples can get torn apart.
Love is not always enough and does not always survive unscathed. Soulmates and twin flames are often under the assumption that nothing could destroy their relationship. That is simply not true. How we behave and the things we say and do have a direct affect on our soulmate or twin flame relationship. If the connection between you and your soulmate or twin flame is so strong, why are you apart? Why are you and your twin flame or soulmate not communicating properly? Why are you and your soulmate or twin flame growing further apart?
People believe that soul mates and twin flames always work things out and there are no obstacles they cannot overcome. The deep connection is all they need. When it comes to love, it does not always keep us together. Love does not always get us back together, or keep us from breaking up. People can start a relationship, develop feelings for one another, but for one reason or another, the relationship ends. Twin flames and soulmates need weather the storms and survive the bumps in the road along the way.
Life is not always easy, and can be very hard, just like matters of the heart. All relationships will have their ups and downs, but if your relationships has extreme highs and extreme lows, you may need some help to level that pace. The extreme highs do not, and should not make up for the extreme lows. Your relationship should not go to extreme lows in the first place. You need to get to the root of the problems so you can avoid those lows as best as possible. Some things are out of our control, but what IS in your control you CAN control.
Our desire and need for our soulmate or twin flame is what sustains us through and supports us through our daily lives. We should not leave it to fate, chance, or destiny to decide if our love will grow, or survive. Don’t keep yourself from doing what you can to successfully maintain a loving relationship with your soulmate or twinflame. Take charge of the most important relationship in your life and do whatever you can to allow it to flourish, rather than wither. Love may not be enough, but with some work, effort, you can now have all you need to keep your soulmate or twin flame relationship thriving.