When Your Twin Flame or Soulmate is in Denial

When your twin flame or soulmate is in denial it can be the most frustrating part of your spiritual connection.

It’s really hard when you’ve waited to finally meet your spiritual partner, and instead of enjoying the connection, they’re in total denial.

When a soulmate or twin flame is in denial, it’s a very destructive time in the relationship.

How you navigate through this period is crucial to the survival and outcome of your relationship.


If your soulmate or twin flame is in denial it could cause you to question the connection as well. Well that’s just great. Now both of you are questioning your feelings. Now both of you could be in denial.

This doesn’t help. If you’re not the kind of person that falls for another easily, or doesn’t think everyone they meet is their soulmate or twin flame, chances are you will know it when you find one.

You don’t need a diagnosis from a professional to know that someone is your spiritual partner. For the most part it is pretty darn obvious. Don’t let your soulmate or twin flames denial cause you to question what you know in your soul is real.


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When Your Soul Mate is in Denial

When your twin flame or soulmate is in denial, you may feel it’s your job to prove to them that you’re spiritually connected. You may feel the need explain to them what soulmates and twin flames are.

It’s not your job and it isn’t your journey. It won’t do any good anyway. It will just make the two of you at odds. In order for them to win they’ll have to prove to you that you’re not their spiritual counterpart.

That proof means saying or doing hurtful things to you. Why subject yourself to that? Why make them focus on proving they are right and you are wrong? This is just destructive to the relationship.

Until they experience for themselves the pain of being without you, or not having you in their life in the right capacity, they won’t be open to hearing the other side. They have to be ready. If they’re in denial, they simply are not ready.

So stand still.

Realize this is often part of the soulmate and twin flame process. The universe will help them see the light, it doesn’t need your help. Your intentions may be good, but your actions and words may only wind up making things a lot, lot worse.

They may actually do such a good job of denying your connection they’ll even convince you! So how can that help? If you want to get into a debate with them, you may not win.

When a soulmate or twin flame is in full blown denial, trying to convince them to accept reality and change their mind is pointless. It may be time to sit on the sidelines and stay out of the combat zone. It’s for your own good and for the relationship’s good as well.

You have a choice.

You can either let your soulmate or twin flames denial lead you to the conclusion they will never realize what could be between you. It can make you think you don’t stand a chance and that they will never change their mind. You will feel like a fool for believing in something that wasn’t real.

Or you could have faith that the universe that created this connection has a better chance at being of help in this situation. You don’t have to feel powerless. The universe is the greatest power of all, and they brought you together for a reason. Be patient, stay sane and allow both the universe and your partner the time to make things right again.

Originally posted on 09/28/2016 @ 2:11 pm

16 thoughts on “When Your Twin Flame or Soulmate is in Denial”

  1. Out of the blue my Twin flame is denying his feelings and our connection! What should I do?

  2. I was shocked when all of a sudden my twin flame decided out of the blue we no longer had a connection and did not think we ever did! They were the one that spoke of the connection between us first. Now all of a sudden we are not connected? Will they ever admit our connection again or will they deny it now permanently? My heart is broken, I did not see this coming.

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  3. I went through this with my soulmate. They ghosted me for a long time and it was torture.

  4. Hiii. So is it possible for 2 twin flams which both recognised the connection but only one of them has romantic feelings? Thank you

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