Soulmates and twin flame relationships are all or nothing relationships. Spiritual connections seem to be all about extremes. The range of emotions between soulmates and twin flames, depending which label resonates with you, often resembles a roller coaster. Up, then down, up then down.
THERE IS NO MIDDLE GROUND
There’s not always a lot of middle ground, especially in the early days of the relationship. There’s a chosen path for all spiritual unions. And that’s to learn the lessons the universe requires, and make the necessary changes, or do nothing. If each member of the relationship does what needs to be done, they can have it all as a couple. If they don’t, they tend to lose it all.
And we’re not just talking about the relationship either. Many soulmates and twin flames who turn their back on the connection, and resist change, usually experience profound problems in other areas of their life. People who turn their backs on their spiritual partner seem to encounter difficulties with their career, family or job. So it’s not just tied to romance. They may lose a job, get ill, encounter family drama or even lose friends.
WHEN KARMA COMES CALLING
Since they don’t respect the gift the universe gave them, they must reap the karma. If they don’t make the necessary changes, things can change for the worse for them. When a soulmate or twin flame rejects the connection, they may be in for a rough road. They may attempt to get into other relationships but they never measure up. Once someone experiences the deep levels of emotion and chemistry a spiritual union provides it’s hard to settle for less.
On top of all that, if they can’t change or grow for their soulmate or twin flame, in most cases they won’t change for anyone else. The relationships they attempt with other people will either be on a more superficial level or settling to a degree. They may purposely choose someone who cares more about the relationship than they ever could. Although these relationships may seem safer to them, they’re usually unsatisfactory. Why wouldn’t they be?
ARE YOU GIVING ALL OR NOTHING?
Soulmate and twin flame relationship are really all or nothing relationships. They have no middle ground. They can’t be casual acquaintances or keep the relationship at a casual level. It’s impossible since the feelings and connection grow on a daily basis. If one of them has issues with the connection they may suggest the pretense of just wanting something casual. And they’re kidding themselves.
It’s just not going to happen. There’s simply too much between them to slap it with a casual label. The other spiritual partner may wonder how they’re taking the relationship so casually, when in reality they’re not. It’s all smoke and mirrors. No soulmate or twin flame could call what is between them casual. Or they would be lying.
WHAT DO YOU CHOOSE?
All spiritual partners, through their actions, words and behaviors decide their outcome. They can accept the gift they have been given and do the right thing. And they can create a new life path for themselves and better themselves. If they do, they’ll have a loving, strong relationship with a partner who supports them through their life journey. They really can have it all.
But remember the changes required are not just to make their relationship work. It’s designed to make them better people. And as better people they will live happier and more fulfilling lives. But they can also choose not to accept the challenge before them by exercising their free will. Instead they can decide to stay on the wrong path. They can run from their soulmate or twin flame and continue on a downward spiral. And since they didn’t become better people and change for the better, their lives will be affected negatively. With spiritually connected couples it really is all or nothing.