Have you found yourself in love with your twin flame or soulmate but they are emotionally unavailable? It is heartbreaking when the one you love cannot or does not feel the same way about you. It is terrible when someone can not give you what you need. But how can you tell if your twin flame or soulmate is emotionally unavailable?
For starters, if your soulmate or twin flame are involved with someone else, they are not emotionally available to you. When you share someone, you share their emotions as well. They may really feel a connection to you, but cannot or will not act on it because of that fact they are already in a relationship or married.
Yes, when we meet our twin flame or soulmate they could actually be married or in a relationship with someone else. Until they are willing to act on that connection and consider ending the current relationship, they are emotionally unavailable to you. They may never have the courage to acknowledge the connection at all. Sometimes, all it takes is time.
If you are in a friends with benefits situation, or a booty call this may be a false soulmate or twin flame situation. If they will never treat you or call you their girlfriend or boyfriend then they are emotionally unavailable to you. Something is keeping them from going to the next level with you. One may think because there is such a great connection and the sex is great, that there is more to it. That is not always the case. Sometimes there can be a connection to you sexually, but no emotional availability.
You may be in a relationship with someone who is cold, distant, and does not treat you well. They may have been different when you first met, but they are emotionally unavailable now. In this situation, is it right to keep hanging in there? Has the time come to finally let go? That all depends. You may have think you tried everything and cannot get this relationship back on track no matter what you do. You may have run out of ideas to get your emotionally unavailable soulmate or twin flame to open up emotionally. It is hard making that choice, but it must be done.
You may have gone through a break up and still feel for your ex deeply and want to get back together. They may have a new relationship and have cut you off completely. They may have even told you they no longer care for you or love you anymore. Is it time to move on and get closure, or will you be getting back together? They may only be pretending to be emotionally unavailable to you right now. Each couple is different, so there is no easy one-size-fits-all answer. (If you want to get a personal reading about your situation, feel free to contact Sarah Adelle and Sophia Elise using click4advisor.)
Nothing is more frustrating than loving someone who is emotionally unavailable. If things cannot change, you are wasting your time, and need to know right now, once and for all. Soulmates and twin flames are worth fighting for, but sometimes you are fighting the inevitable.