Are you in love with your twin flame or soulmate but they’re emotionally unavailable?
It is heartbreaking when the one you love can’t, or doesn’t, feel the same way about you. It’s terrible when someone can’t give you what you need.
How can you tell if your twin flame or soulmate is emotionally unavailable?
THEY ARE IN ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP
If your soulmate or twin flame is involved with someone else, they aren’t emotionally available to you. When you share someone, you share their emotions as well. They may really feel a connection to you, but can’t or won’t act on it because they are already married or in another relationship.
Yes, when you meet your spiritual partner they could actually be with someone else. Until they’re willing to act on your connection, and consider ending the current relationship, they’re emotionally unavailable to you. They may never have the courage to acknowledge the connection at all. Sometimes, all it takes is time.
FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS
If you’re in a friends with benefits situation, or a booty call, this may be a false soulmate or false twin flame situation. If they never treat you like a girlfriend or boyfriend, then they’re emotionally unavailable to you. Something is keeping them from going to the next level with you.
One may think because there’s such a great connection and the sex is amazing, that there is more to it. That’s not always the case. Sometimes there can be a connection to you sexually, but no emotional availability.
THEY MISTREAT YOU
You may be in a relationship with someone who is cold, distant and mistreats you. Perhaps they were different when you first met, but they’re emotionally unavailable now.
In this situation, is it right to keep hanging in there? Has the time come to finally let go? That all depends.
You may have think you tried everything and cannot get this relationship back on track no matter what you do. You may have run out of ideas to get your emotionally unavailable soulmate or twin flame to open up emotionally to you. It’s hard making that choice, but it must be done.
Perhaps you’ve gone through a break-up but still have deep feelings for your ex.
Of course you want to get back together. But they may have a new relationship and cut you off completely. They may have told you they no longer care for you or love you anymore. Is it time to move on and get closure, or will you be getting back together? They may only be pretending to be emotionally unavailable to you right now.
Each couple is different. So there is no easy one-size-fits-all answer. Nothing is more frustrating than loving someone who is emotionally unavailable. If things can’t change, you’re wasting your time, and you need to know right now, once and for all.
Soulmates and twin flames are worth fighting for, but sometimes you are fighting the inevitable.
Originally posted on 04/19/2013 @ 9:04 am