Is your soulmate or twin flame in a bad relationship?
Have you met your spiritual partner only to discover they’re already involved with someone else?
It can be wonderful thing when you first meet your spiritual counterpart. You both flow with that instant connection. Your feelings for each other are intense and immeasurable. You’re on top of the world! Then you discover they’re already in a relationship. And it is a bad one.
WHY THEY STAY IN A BAD RELATIONSHIP
You think to yourself how this happened in close to perfect timing. Your soulmate or twin flame is in a bad relationship, and doesn’t know how to get out of it. Or they may just stay for a variety of ridiculous reasons. Now they have to deal with the intense connection between you. They now have many reasons to leave that situation. But will they and do they?
Surprisingly, even when someone encounters their soulmate or twin flame, they don’t always get out of their previous relationship. Sometimes they do get out of it, but it can take many months, and even years. So why is your soulmate or twin flame staying in a relationship that does not make them happy, especially after they find you?
This can be a question that continues to haunt you because it just doesn’t make any sense to you.
In many cases, they’re used to their bad relationship and deal with it in their own way. They may not have any real plan to get out of it either. But then a soulmate or twin flame comes into the picture. Instead of ending their relationship to be with them, they often juggle both of them.
When someone meets a soulmate or twin flame, they can become blindly focused on that person. All they can think of is talking to them, being with them, etc. Their focus isn’t on their dysfunctional relationship, where it needs to be. It’s on their soulmate or twin flame.
So quite often a soulmate or twin flame relationship begins before the other one ends. Now the soulmate or twin flame is much happier than they were before meeting you. Unfortunately this can make them less inclined to get out of their bad situation. Many of the reasons they have for staying in the bad relationship are still there, only now they feel much, much better, because they met you.
So where is the sense of urgency?
For those people, it isn’t there at all. Some soulmates and twin flames meet and immediately end their other relationships, or shortly thereafter. But an alarming amount of people don’t. When you’re waiting for a soulmate or twin flame to end a bad relationship, it will take what seems to you like an eternity.
Sometimes you have to pull back on your soulmate or twin flame relationship to remind them of how awful their bad relationship is. Distance may be the answer. So it you’ve already tried everything else, try distance. It may feel like a scary thing to do, but it shouldn’t be.
What should scare you is you’re taking a sacred relationship and turning it into a bad relationship by engaging in an affair that comes with lying and cheating. The arguing, hurt feelings, and imbalance of power create bad dynamics between the two you. Don’t let your soulmates or twin flame’s bad relationship ruin the one between the two of you.
Originally posted on 03/22/2017 @ 9:12 pm