Has your soulmate or twin flame hurt your feelings? If so it can come as a shock. Any emotional pain that comes with it is extremely difficult to deal with.
You may believe your soulmate or twin flame would be the last person on earth who would hurt you. But they do.
So it’s not at all uncommon for soulmates or twin flames to hurt each other. Especially when the time comes for one, or both of them, to make the necessary changes.
LACK OF CHANGE CAN HURT YOUR FEELINGS
For instance, let’s say a couple meets when they’re both in other relationships. And instead of waiting to begin a relationship until they’re both single, they start an affair. They both know that at some point the issue of terminating their previous relationship is going to come up. But they’re not really thinking about that right now.
They want the payoff first, before they do the work. So they focus on the romance and how happy it’s making them. But it only lasts so long until they must address their other relationships.
When soulmates or twin flames can’t talk to one another as much as they want, and want the freedom to see one another when they want, struggles, arguments and frustrations come into play. One soulmate or twin flame may start the process of ending the relationship because they feel the other is betraying them by making excuses. They fail to take responsiblity of their actions.
So when that person becomes single, they expect their spiritual partner to follow suit. But without a kick in the behind, they often don’t. The simple fact that a soulmate or twin flame won’t leave their relationship to be with you, especially when you have done it for them, causes emotional instability.
When you’re sharing your soulmate or twin flame with someone they don’t claim to love, you may feel like the second option. So the longer it takes for them to get out of their relationship, the longer a soulmate or twin flame constantly gets their feelings hurt.
GIVING AND CARING TOO MUCH
You may be very compassionate regarding your twin flame or soulmate’s situation. But now you feel your being taken for granted because they don’t feel compassionate towards you.
Why doesn’t your soulmate or twin flame understand, or seem to care, you’re experiencing an emotional roller coaster? Why can’t they do whatever it takes to stop hurting your feelings? If you put your feelings last and their feelings first, it’s a safe bet they will put theirs first and yours last. They’re just copying you. So until you put your own feelings first, they won’t either.
Start by looking at all you give your spiritual partner. Have you gone a bit overboard? Soulmates and twin flames have a tendency to do so. Are you giving 100% while they’re giving only about 40%? Well why are you still giving 100%? Because that is just how you are? Because you love them? Regardless of the excuse you’re using, what you’re doing is wrong.
You helped create a situation where you’re giving too much and they’re giving too little. Stop giving so much, so they can pick up the slack. If you don’t want them to take you for granted, pulling back is the best way to show them they’re taking you for granted. Showing them there are real consequences to their own happiness is a great lesson to teach someone when they hurt your feelings.
Has your soulmate or twin flame hurt your feelings? How did you handle it? Please share your experiences with other readers of this article if you’re so inclined.
Originally posted on 2018-08-06 @ 9:47 pm