Long distance relationships for soulmates and twin flames require a lot of trust. And they will need commitment and willingness to work it out.
Long distance relationships come with a lot of unique challenges that you will both need to work through. You want to make sure you are with the right person. And that all the work you put into your long distance twin flame or soulmate relationship will be worth it.
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS START ONLINE
Many long distance relationships start out as internet dating. And that develops into romance which evolves to a soulmate or twin fame relationship. When you meet someone online it’s crucial you have as much detailed information about them as possible.
Sadly, there are too many predators online that want you to believe they are your soulmate or twin flame. These people will say and do all the right things, just to get you to believe they’re perfect for you. They are not. They are seeing or talking to other people. Some are even in other relationships!
Perhaps you’ve been involved with someone for a long time and are forced into a long distance relationship. It may be due to college, career moves or any other reason. This can lead to stressing out that it won’t work out. But also fear they’ll break up with you.
You may wonder if they’re being honest when they say they’re faithful. You may feel insecure about what you may see on social media and wonder if they are lying to you. Trusting your soulmate or twin flame may be very difficult at times.
Play it smart. It’s reasonable to be a little insecure if a soulmate or twin flame is far away from you. You love this person more than you’ve ever loved someone before. You have a lot to lose. So being fearful makes sense.
Really take a look at what you’re feeling. Is your spiritual partner doing or saying anything that raises red flags? If the answer is no, look at yourself, rather than them. Get the insecurity and fear under control, before it gets out of control.
You may be concerned that because you aren’t there, they’re spending time with members of the opposite sex. What if something happens and feelings develop? You may wonder if all this is worth it. Each individual has to decide whether or not it is worth it. Take into consideration that if both parties put in the effort, there is no reason why it can’t work out.
CHEATING IS EASY
Quite often, people who want to cheat, choose long distance relationships because it’s easier to hide cheating and not get caught. Some married people even use long distance relationships to have an affair. They think you’ll never find out they’re married and are using you for sex.
You may think they’re being faithful to you. But the truth is they’re not. Think about it. If someone is looking for a long term relationship why would they pick someone so far away? Especially if they don’t plan to move closer anytime soon. That doesn’t sound like someone really searching for a serious relationship. It sounds more like a person who wants their freedom and wants to keep a part of their lives private.
A soulmate or twin flame does not always live nearby. So sometimes we have to just do the best we can. But it’s better to be in a long distance relationship with a soulmate or twin flame than it is to be in a dead end relationship with someone who lives in your town. Love and relationships are hard enough without adding geographical distance. But they can work out wonderfully.
Originally posted on 2012-11-13 @ 1:08 pm