Feeling Out of Control for Soulmates And Twin Flames

Out of control soulmates and twin flames are more common than people think.


Soulmates and twin flames usually have a hard time dealing with their unique connection and the strong feelings inherent in a soulmate or twin flame relationship. Since they have no previous experiences to draw from, they have to make it up as they go along. Very often, emotions and thoughts run amok and they wonder whether this person is really their soulmate or twin flame. They also wonder if they’re just losing their mind.

While going through this, the acting out can get out of control. No one really knows what it’s like to encounter a twin flame or soulmate connection until it happens. As a result, even if they think they’re prepared for it, they really can’t be. One, or both, of them can try to deny or cut the connection. But they fail to realize they’re not in control of it anyway. No matter how hard anyone tries, a connection the universe creates can’t be broken.


But you can control how you deal with the connection and everything that comes with it.

Acceptance is the first step. No, you haven’t lost your mind. What you’re feeling and going through is real. Accept that first. How you handle it is up to you, but you can’t control how your soulmate or twin flame handles it.

Feeling out of control for soulmates and twin flames
Feeling Out of Control

Your soulmate or twin flame may be either in a state of denial or sabotaging things between you. Don’t let their out of control behavior cause you to behave just like them. Emotions are running high, and feelings of love, hurt and fear can make us do wacky things. Those wacky things can cause permanent damage. If we can just stay put for a while, we can avoid the damage.

It’s hard enough dealing with all of this on your end. The soulmate or twin flame connection is bringing up some things within you that you have to face and ultimately change. That’s what you should be using your energy and time on. Don’t waste your time worrying what your soulmate or twin flame is feeling or what they’re doing for now. Get your act in gear and give them the time, and sometimes the space, they may need to get theirs together.

Sometimes you have to go through a temporary period of separation, if your soulmate or twin flame is an out of control runner. Let them be. It’s a waste of time to chase them down, since all it will do is make them run faster and farther.

Instead, look at what their actions have brought out in you. Are they feelings of insecurity, jealousy or a lack of faith? Those issues may be the lessons you need to learn, and the changes you have to make, in order for this relationship to work. So work on that and take control of what you can, or you will get out of control the same way as your partner.

Originally posted on 11/06/2017 @ 8:01 pm