If you’re drawn to someone, are they a soulmate or twin flame? So many of us have felt a pull towards someone we have not yet met. Let’s say you’re at a party and spot a stranger. And you feel suddenly feel drawn to them. Does this mean they’re a soulmate or twin flame? Is this the same as a spiritual connection?
Not everyone we feel drawn to is a soul mate or twin flame.
Depending on the energy we put out to the universe, we can feel a pull towards someone that’s wrong for us. If you recently got out of a relationship, and didn’t take time to detox and heal, you could be drawn to someone just like your ex. This of course will create the same problematic relationship with them that we did with our ex.
This is why it is very important to take the time necessary to learn from our past relationships and heal from them. So many people wonder why they keep getting involved in the wrong relationships, and why the same problems keep showing up in their relationships. You don’t have to be a bad person to be drawn to bad people. It is not that you are doing anything wrong per say.
It is a good rule of thumb that before entering a new relationship you let go of the baggage from your past relationships. Being by yourself for a while and being okay with being alone helps you make better choices going forward. Let go of the fact that your last relationship was not fixable and that it is for the best. When you do that, it can help you from being drawn to another broken person.
If you’re feeling a pull towards someone, don’t just jump to the conclusion that it may be a spiritual connection. When a spirit is broken, it cannot really make the right connection right now. When you see similarities between this new person you’re drawn to and a past relationship, be on the lookout for red flags.
You do not want to keep repeating the same lessons over and over again. No one needs to go through that pain more than once. Wouldn’t it be great if we were only drawn towards people that have our best interests at heart? Unfortunately, that is not always the case. It is easy to be intrigued by this pull you are feeling towards someone. Just remember to proceed with caution, and keep your eyes open.
Also check our article: Do You Need a Twin Flame or is a Soul Mate Enough?