When Your Twin Flame or Soulmate Rejects You

When your twin flame or soulmate rejects you, it’s the most helpless feeling on earth.

What starts as an instant connection now leaves you feeling dazed and confused. When your twin flame or soulmate rejects you, it causes you to wonder if this is all a fantasy created in your own mind.

It was amazing how easy it was to talk, get along, and how much you had in common. The level of attraction, and the depth of feeling, caused you to soar to heights never before experienced. It was amazing how fast you developed feelings for each other.

All those things made you question your own sanity. But when you twin flame or soulmate was on board with you, you felt validated.

YOU QUESTION EVERYTHING WHEN YOUR SOULMATE OR TWIN FLAME REJECTS YOU

When they reject you, you will question anything and everything. Did they ever feel the same way you did? How could they express their feelings toward you, and begin planning a future, only to reject you? Were they truthful with you? How could it be the truth if they’re denying it or walking away right now?

Before you drive yourself crazy with all these questions, first you need to settle yourself.

You know what you felt. You’re not prone to falling head over heels with everyone you meet. There’s no doubt these feelings were different from any you have felt before. And guess what? The same thing happened to you spiritual partner. It was real. You both felt the same thing.

The difference is, you embraced it, while they rejected it. Not everyone readily accepts a gift from the universe. They may be thrilled with it at first, but then when they realize the serious nature of that gift, they want to give it back and run for the hills.

So when your twin flame or soulmate rejects you, don’t jump into the chaos and blame it on yourself.

When a twin flame or soulmate rejects you, peel back the layers and look for the real reason they may be doing this. Forget about the feelings they shared with you and the plans you made for the future. Forget how happy you both were for the time being.

Instead, think of the things they told you about themselves. Things about their family, past relationships, bad experiences and their fears. Somewhere in there should be a clue as to why they felt the need for flight instead of fight when they became fearful of the intensity of your relationship.

The answer lies within them, not with you.

Your connection stirred something within them, something they’ve been avoiding. It’s this issue, or many issues, that must be dealt with first. And sometimes it must be dealt with solo. That’s up to your partner. If they choose to go at it alone for a while, you have to allow them that. It’s not easy, but it’s best not to fight it.

Stop thinking it’s your job to help them, convince them, or change their mind. The fact you even think you can do that shows you have some issues of your own that you must address.

Focus on your own issues, and leave them to theirs. When a twin flame or soulmate rejects you, remember that it very well may not last forever. It may be longer than you like, but for the relationship to truly grow and evolve both partners must let go of old baggage and rise to the challenge.

 

Originally posted on 05/12/2018 @ 1:00 pm