If you’re drawn to someone, are they a soul mate or twin flame? So many of us have felt a pull towards someone we have not yet met. We could be at a party when all of a sudden we spot a stranger, and suddenly feel drawn to them. Could it mean they are a soul mate or twin flame? Is being drawn to someone the same thing as being connected to them?
Not everyone we feel drawn to a soul mate or a twin flame. Sometimes, depending on the energy we are putting out to the universe, we could feel a pull towards someone that is all wrong for us. If we got out of a bad relationship and did not take the time to detox and heal we could be drawn to someone just like our ex. Of course we would then have the same problematic relationship with them that we did with our ex.
This is why it is very important to take the time necessary to learn from our past relationships and heal from them. So many people wonder why they keep getting involved in the wrong relationships, and why the same problems keep showing up in their relationships. You don’t have to be a bad person to be drawn to bad people. It is not that you are doing anything wrong per say.
It is a good rule of thumb that before entering a new relationship you let go of the baggage from your past relationships. Being by yourself for a while and being okay with being alone helps you make better choices going forward. Let go of the fact that your last relationship was not fixable and that it is for the best. When you do that, it can help you from being drawn to another broken person.
If you’re feeling a pull towards someone, don’t just jump to the conclusion that it may be a spiritual connection. If your spirit is broken, it cannot really make the right connection right now. If you see similarities between this new person you’re drawn to and a past relationship, be on the lookout for red flags.
You do not want to keep repeating the same lessons over and over again. No one needs to go through that pain more than once. It would be great if we were only drawn towards people that have our best interests at heart, but that is not always the case. It is easy to be intrigued by this pull you are feeling towards someone. Just remember to proceed with caution, and keep your eyes open.
Also check our article: Do You Need a Twin Flame or is a Soul Mate Enough?