Soul mates are supposed to give us opportunities for learning more about ourselves so we can grow into more evolved human beings. For some soul mates, of course, there is the element of romance, yet some have found soul mates in friends, family members and even pets. Any type of soul mate relationship will provide life lessons, but many people have a hard time figuring out what exactly are they supposed to learn. Instead of learning, many people make mistakes with their soul mate. We are supposed to learn from all our mistakes in life, but there are those who are unaware they any mistake has even been made.
What can be learned from soul mate mistakes?
The first thing to be learned from soul mistakes is the acknowledgment of what your mistakes were, and why you made them. For instance, let’s suppose you expereinced a soul mate who was in denial about your connection. You take it upon yourself to convince them they are your soul mate. You send them articles on soul mates in the hope they will read, understand and embrace your soul mate connection. When you talk or text you keep mentioning all the signs you have seen that prove you are soul mates. You talk to them about the intensity of your feelings and how you know they must feel it too.
Your soul mate not only continues to deny it, but now starts pushing you away. So you again feel your best course of action is to help them come to terms with it. You keep contacting them and trying whatever you can do to make them talk to you. At this point you should have already learned something. Your first attempt to convince your soul mate failed miserably. There was an opportunity to change tactics which could have prevented them from pulling so far away. What is the lesson here? Perhaps your lesson was to allow others to accept things on their own time, not yours. It could be your lesson was not to come on so strong with your soul mate. When a soul mate relationship is in crisis or has issues, it is time for you to look for the mistakes you made. Not just theirs, yours. They learn from theirs, you learn from yours. So instead of looking at yourself, you focused on them instead. Big mistake as it turns out.
So many people don’t learn their soul mate mistakes, they repeat them. We cannot count the times we have dealt with a client who was upset because their soul mate keeps doing something wrong. They want to know why their soul mate keeps making mistake after mistake and ruining their chance at a good relationship. They rarely ask what mistakes they are making themselves. No kidding. They are so focused on the trouble their soul mate is causing they haven’t looked at themselves at all. They keep doing the same things which are also contributing to the problems in one way or another. Yet they repeat the same soul mate mistakes too.
No one is learning a thing except how to have a dysfunctional soul mate relationship. When we tell clients what their mistakes are and to stop doing them, you would think they would stop, wouldn’t you? Well, they don’t. They do the same thing again and again and again. For example, let’s say your soul mate won’t contact you for long periods of time. During that time you contact them and get no answer. In your reading it shows that you need to stop contacting them when they go silent, that you are making a mistake and need to learn to let them contact you. This will then teach them the lesson they can’t go quiet like that anymore or they won’t hear from you. Now if you don’t listen, and keep contacting your soul mate when they go M.I.A. you are preventing both of you from learning what you need to. So stop making your mistakes. It may be what is keeping your soul mate from learning from their mistakes.