Is your soulmate or twin flame stressing you out? Does your spiritual partner’s behavior or words create stress in your relationship?
Do you have more confusion than you ever have been in a relationship before?
Soulmates and twin flames are supposed to have it easy right? Wrong.
STRESSING OUT IN SPIRITUAL UNIONS
Soulmate and twin flame relationships have been stressing out couples for a very long time. Why?
Well for starters, the intensity of emotions flows both ways. You have an intense connection and deep feelings. This can lead to very positive reactions. However, those same things can lead to very negative reactions. What often starts out very well, often becomes very stressful as time goes on.
Soulmate and twin flame relationships challenge us and those challenges can also be very stressful. That stress adds to the drama and acting out, very often making things worse. When we meet a soulmate or twin flame, the relationship can take over our lives. Our work, family, friends and other priorities fall to the wayside.
We can get so caught up in the euphoria of the connection that it mutes everything else around us. When we come back down to our reality, that wake up call often makes people start stressing out.
We have to find a balance and that is often very difficult for some people. Without that balance, we can expect stressful situations.
FEAR CREATES STRESS
When our feelings take over, our brains seem to go to sleep. When it awakens, fear can creeps in. Fear has a great way of stressing people out. When soulmates and twin flames focus on their fears they can cycle down obsession.
The spiritual connection connection is supposed to be empowering and make you feel as if you can take on the world. But when coupled with fear, that same connection often triggers major stressing out instead. Many imagine the worst case scenarios.
Instead of remaining calm and centered in your soul connection, many folks often jump the gun, jump to conclusions and create more drama and more stress. A spiritual connection that was designed to bring confidence and personal strength into your life, has now brought insecurity.
All of this stressing out can lead to soulmates and twin flames enabling bad behavior. And so it gets worse, and worse, adding more stress into your life.
It’s time to put on the brakes and stop allowing your soulmate or twin flame relationship to keep stressing you out. Put the focus back where it belongs, on yourself and your own personal growth. Stop thinking about them. Stop wondering about them and what they are feeling and doing.
You don’t control them.
It’s that lack of control that is stressing you out. Get control of YOURSELF. Get your strength back. Focus on doing the right thing. Let go of your fear and create and enforce healthy boundaries.
Do you what you can to create a healthy relationship. Then let your spiritual counterpart follow suit. Stressing out does you no good. Empowering yourself will help both you and your soulmate or twin flame relationship in the long run.
Originally posted on 11/09/2016 @ 11:31 pm