Soulmates and twin flame connections often describe the strong bond they feel towards one another. And they usually feel they have no control over the thoughts or emotions they feel for their spiritual partner. They may even try and walk away from them but the connection pulls them back time and time again. Some soulmates and twin flames have an empathic connection, and feel the emotions of the other. Some soulmates and twin flames connect through dreams. Others swear they can read each others mind and will finish their sentences.
Soulmate and twin flame relationships are hard to walk away from because of the strong, deep connection, and everything that comes with it. Almost every member of a soulmate or twin flame couple has spoken to us of strength. Strong connection. And strong feelings. You name it. But all that strength they speak of seems to work against them and they become weak. It’s because of the strong connection that they don’t have the strength to do what needs to be done.
KEEPING IT STRONG
If what needs to be done in a soulmate or twin flame relationship isn’t done, harmony can’t happen. Drama can, but not harmony. So what does one do with the double edge sword that is a spiritual connection? How can you keep it a strength and not a weakness? Let’s face it, it’s the weakness that causes the heartache. This weakness makes us fearful, instead of feeling fearless. The weakness makes us think of worst case scenarios, where strength would give us hope. The weakness makes us lower our standards, instead of raise them. Weakness makes us feel we must enable bad behavior where strength would make us put an end to it. Weakness makes us questions if love even exists. But strength knows it does.
So what can you do to be strong when dealing with soulmate or twin flame connections? The first way to stabilize yourself is to choose a side. Either you believe in the connection or you don’t. You have to start there. If you believe in the connection between you, you’re coming from a place of faith. You can’t have it both ways. If you truly believe the universe created this spiritual connection, then you must believe your soulmate or twin flame also feels the connection. There are no two ways around it. Simple as that. Pick a side and stay there.
HOW DOES THE CONNECTION MAKE YOU FEEL?
Next, think of what the connection makes you feel and experience. If you feel and experience it, so do they. No two ways around that either. Now you may react differently to all of it. But the bottom line is you both feel it and experience it. So now it’s clear and straight in your head, you’ll realize the only difference is your behavior towards your connection. You have let go of questioning your sanity and the spiritual connection itself. You can now focus on what is really creating the problems. And this is usually the behavior of your soulmate or twin flame. Once you see where the problems are really stemming from, you can find solutions. When you are looking in the wrong place, you get no where.
Do you have a strong relationship? You soulmate and twin flame connections can be a source of strength for you. But it’s up to you to make it a source of strength. Your soulmate or twin flame may be currently using it against you as a weakness. How you react is up to you, not them. The choice is yours.