Getting divorced was something you should have done a long time ago. You may have decided to settle for a marriage with no romance to stay together as a family, thinking it would be good for the kids. There are a million different reasons you could stay in a marriage that isn’t fulfilling and just live with it. But then the universe throws a soul mate in your path. Now you begin to think differently.
Now you no longer want your unfulfilling marriage and want to get divorced to be with your soul mate. This happens more often than you would think. You may be surprised to learn how many soul mates meet when both of them are married to other people! A soul mate connection can awaken feelings, impulses and desires that have long remained dormant. If you have been in a passionless marriage for a long time, you will be shocked when that passion re ignites once you meet your soul mate. Part of you may be stuck on the fence though. You wonder if getting divorced for a soul mate is the right thing to do. You didn’t expect this to happen, you may not even have wanted it to happen. But it did. Your soul mate came into your life and turned it upside down.
You may not have realized how truly lonely you were even though you are married. You may not have seen just how much you missed true intimacy until your soul mate came along. You may have thought you marriage was enough and that you could live with it. Now that your soul mate has shown up, you feel as though you can no longer settle for less. You want more and your soul mate can give it to you.
You don’t know where to start the divorce process, or even how. It could be your soul mate is the one who is married and they don’t know where to begin either. If you and your soul mate have already started an affair, you really should consider divorce as well. You or your soul mate, depending on who is married, should consider getting divorced before you get caught having an affair. Getting caught before the process has even begun will only drag things out. It will also make getting divorced a lot uglier. No one having an affair wants to get caught, but let’s face it, some do. Best to get it over with so the affair can possibly remain a secret.
Your soul mate may be getting divorced to be with you. They may have to lay low for a period of time during the divorce so their spouse does not find out about you. That time apart will be hard, but focus on the big picture. If someone is getting divorced to be with you, you owe it to them to do all you can to be supportive and patient. The time will come where you can be together freely and openly so focus on the bright future ahead of you.
Some soul mates won’t consider getting a divorce right away. Some want to make sure the soul mate connection is real and that they haven’t lost their mind. Since being with a soul mate can make you feel as though you have lost your sense of logic, this can be understandable. Soul mates need to stick together when one or both of them is getting divorced so they can be together. Divorcing a spouse is stressful and for most it is a negative experience. Don’t take it out on each other. Use the support of your soul mate to help you get through this difficult time as best you can.