Is your soul mate frustrating you? Have you been compassionate and understanding with your soul mate, but now you feel total frustration towards them?
It is really frustrating to have a soul mate who won’t get their act together. You may have felt sympathetic towards them long ago, but now their excuses and sympathy ploys are having a much different affect. You can only wait so long for your soul mate to create changes and when they don’t, it is frustrating to you.
You have bent over backwards and wonder why they aren’t willing to do the same. You feel like you have been patient, understanding, and have given all you can. It is frustrating you because you feel they are doing almost nothing. It is as if whatever excuse they have, you are supposed to excuse it. You have heard it all before, and are bored with their excuses.
They know what they need to do to make you happy, but for whatever reason, they won’t get it done. Now you have reached your wits end, and are feeling like they are never going to do what you need them to. You may have reached a point where you are ready to walk away, and give up. You tried everything, and nothing seems to work.
You feel like crap when your soul mate won’t do what they know is the right thing to do. You have heard their apologies time and time again, but you realize they are not really, truly sorry. If they were, why would they do it over and over again? You don’t believe you are asking for much. You believe anyone in your position would ask for the same things. Why do they feel they can get away with so much? The bottom line is because you allow them to.
So what should you do when your soul mate is frustrating you? Each case, of course, is different. Before throwing in the towel, it is essential to do something different. It could even be something drastic. If you believe they are taking you for granted, then maybe you should pull back, even way back. Stop giving so much if you haven’t been getting much back in return. If they take notice, which they almost always do, don’t be so eager to go back to your old ways, or they will go back to their old ways just as fast and you will find yourself back to square one.
If you believe they don’t fear losing you, or don’t care if they do, then you may have to put that to the test. The results may surprise you.
Look at what you can do differently and that may be just what it takes to make your soul mate stop frustrating you, and begin making you happy instead.