Have you been ghosted by your soul mate? Did you finally meet the person to whom you had a soul connection only to have them disappear, like a ghost, from your life? Did your soul mate leave without telling you why and cut off all communication between you? If you have been ghosted by your soul mate, you are not alone.
Since soul mates often run, for one reason or another, they tend to cease all communication between you when they vanish. Instead of fighting through their feelings and working through them, their flight or fight mechanism kicks in, and they chose to flee the relationship. This doesn’t make sense to most people, and they are shocked, confused and hurt when it happens. How can someone who is so deeply connected to someone else resort to ghosting? How are they able to cut the connection?
The deep connection causes soul mates to run and they resort to ghosting when they do. Simply put, their emotions, connection and bond towards you scares them to death. The way they choose to deal with it is to run away from their feelings, and from you. They simply feel it is too overwhelming to deal with and believe if they have no contact you with and distance themselves from you, it will all go away.
They may think that, but that isn’t what happens. They can go to the moon and cut all contact with you, but they cannot control their thoughts and feelings towards you not more than you can cut your feelings for them. The connection is still there, even if you have been ghosted. They are just handling it differently that you do. Just because someone has ghosted you does not mean they are over you, don’t care about you or don’t think about you. They took the connection with them, wherever they went.
Sometimes soul mates have to prove the connection is real. If you have been ghosted by your soul mate, they probably tried before to deny the connection was real between you. There stands a very good chance that while they are in hiding from you, they will learn that. And it will be a painful lesson.
Many soul mates that have been ghosted were ghosted because their soul mate chose leaving rather than learning their lesson or growing. Let’s say your soul mate was in another relationship they had to end so yours could really begin. The time had come for them to sever the ties with that other person, because they couldn’t have it both ways.
So what do they do, instead of what they should do, for all parties involved? They cut you off, ghost you and stay in the crappy relationship that makes them miserable. They don’t care about that person more than you. They still care about you. They are just resistant to going through the process of ending that bad relationship. Why do you think they have stayed in it as long as they have? It is not love, it is fear.
Many times when soul mates have been ghosted, their soul mate returns. They realize they miss their soul mate connection and their bad relationship continues to make them miserable. So they may tell you a line of nonsense such as “Well we were trying to make it work and I couldn’t communicate with you while I was doing that.”
That excuse is used so often it isn’t funny, and rarely is it true. It is just an excuse to keep from doing the adult thing. They knew damn well it wasn’t going to work. Just like you know the pen you tried to use 12 times didn’t work isn’t going to work the 13th time. We know when someone has the capacity to make us happy, and when they don’t.
There are so many reasons why people have been ghosted by a soul mate, and it is a horrible experience to go through. But remember, this does not always mean it is over, and it almost always means they are suffering too.